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It’s that time again — Tuesday! — which means I attempt to brighten your day with half-naked men. Read on at your own risk.  Top Off Tuesdays was started by FeliciaChristi and me.  It is where we (and you!) share the book covers that make us swoon.  Head over to Felicia’s blog to share your Top Off Tuesday link or to see what everyone has posted.

Amanda’s guess: Venus is a nickname for something.

When Col. Link Taylor, SpaceFleet Mars Command, stepped into The Fantasy Shoppe, he didn’t expect his purchase to reunite him with the woman he’s always loved and send them both on the sexiest, most dangerous adventure of their lives. Link and Sara have a shot at lifelong happiness together -if they both survive.
-from Goodreads

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Can love and friendship overcome betrayal?

Sweet Salt Air by Barbara Delinsky

Genre: Fiction, Romance
Format: Paperback ARC from the publisher (releases tomorrow!)
Also available as an audiobook from Macmillan Audio! Listen to a clip here.
Read: March 15-25, 2013
Barbara Delinsky — Website| Twitter| Facebook
Sweet Salt Air on Goodreads

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Synopsis

Charlotte and Nicole were once the best of friends, spending summers together in Nicole’s coastal island house off of Maine. But many years, and many secrets, have kept the women apart. A successful travel writer, single Charlotte lives on the road, while Nicole, a food blogger, keeps house in Philadelphia with her surgeon-husband, Julian. When Nicole is commissioned to write a book about island food, she invites her old friend Charlotte back to Quinnipeague, for a final summer, to help. Outgoing and passionate, Charlotte has a gift for talking to people and making friends, and Nicole could use her expertise for interviews with locals. Missing a genuine connection, Charlotte agrees.

But what both women don’t know is that they are each holding something back that may change their lives forever. For Nicole, what comes to light could destroy her marriage, but it could also save her husband. For Charlotte, the truth could cost her Nicole’s friendship, but could also free her to love again. And her chance may lie with a reclusive local man, with a heart to soothe and troubles of his own.

Bestselling author and master storyteller Barbara Delinsky invites you come away to Quinnipeague.

–from Goodreads

My Thoughts

Longtime best friends Charlotte and Nicole are reuniting for the first time in 10 years on the coastal Maine island of Quinnipeague. Charlotte’s a world travelling writer, researching, interviewing, and selling stories to various publications. Nicole is a wife and step-mother, as well as a food blogger and aspiring cookbook writer. It’s the cookbook that prompts Nicole to invite Charlotte back to Quinnipeague for the summer: she wants to make the book the best it can be and she knows Charlotte is the perfect writer for the collaboration.

But it isn’t only the cookbook that is taking Nicole to the island; nor is Charlotte’s career the sole reason why she’s been absent from her best friend’s life for a decade. Both woman are harboring secrets – and both secrets involve Nicole’s husband, Julian. As her long-kept secrets begin to spill out at a surprising pace, Charlotte finds herself drawn to the island bad boy, Leo Cole. Son of the island herbalist, Leo, like his mother before him, doesn’t like visitors. But Charlotte can’t help herself. They start up a tenuous friendship that quickly escalates into a relationship that neither one of them expected – or believe they can keep. For her part, Nicole finds herself not only facing a fractured friendship, but also fighting for her marriage – and her husband’s life.

This book and I have become BFFs. I finished it and, when I finish reading a book, it goes one of three places:

  1. Back to the library
  2. In the sell back bag
  3. On the keep shelves in my basement

But this book, well, this book is special. It’s still sitting on my night table. Partly to remind me to write this review, but mainly because I don’t want to have it too far away from me. The story and the characters are still with me. I was praying as I read, repeating a mantra of please don’t break my heart, please don’t break my heart, please don’t break my heart, as I delved deeper and deeper into the story. The way Barbara Delinsky writes has a touch of magic in it. As a reader, I felt like I was there on Quinnipeague with Nicole and Charlotte and Leo and the whole cast of characters. I was firmly tied to the characters’ emotions, which just enhanced the story and the reading all the more.

Between the two, I identified more strongly with Charlotte; perhaps because she’s the single one of the pair. As Charlotte fell for Leo, I fell with her. I tried to be a supportive friend reader to Nicole when Charlotte fessed up to what happened on Quinnipeague 10 years earlier and dealt with the emotions that brought up. I wanted to be sitting next to her in the herb garden, sailing alongside her and Leo, working or reading books in the library as the pair clicked away on their respective computers. I can see all of the scenes and places so vividly in my mind’s eye. And the way I see it, that’s the telltale marking of an excellent story.

Now, does anyone think there’s a real-life Leo Cole out there looking for a chubby Midwest gal who doesn’t really like seafood? (I mean, except for fish fries. How can you not like a piece of fish battered and deep fried to a crispy golden brown?) If so, give him my number, won’t you?

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Clock Rewinders on a Book Binge is where Tara @ 25 Hour Books and I shamelessly plug each other, share the fantastic posts, giveaways, or whatever else we’ve found and loved by other awesome bloggers (or authors!) during the week, and talk about the books we plan on reading in the coming week.

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Meanwhile, in Amanda’s World

I have DONE THINGS! Nikki and I hosted our very first #blogbiz chat, and I think it was a success. We’re hosting another one July 11th and we’ll talk about readability–style and formatting. This one WILL help you. I promise. So join us.

And then I posted about why using two spaces between sentences is the mullet of typing rules and why giving up is sometimes the fastest way to get it done.

(And, obviously, my blog is back up and running. A big thanks to Cialina for helping. I highly recommend her.)

You guys. I’m trying to remember if I did anything exciting this week. Not really. I did pick up my parents from the airport. They were in Alaska visiting my brother. And I made it to the airport terminal without getting lost. That’s…it. I LEAD AN EXCITING LIFE.

On Free Books Need Love Too, I reviewed The Too Clever Fox by Leigh Bardugo (GOOD STUFF) and our GLA review for the week, Cum for Bigfoot. We were not impressed. And slightly horrified.

Around the Book Blogging Community

Search Terms

puns about blankets – heh. PUNS ABOUT BLANKETS.

reading too many books at once – NEVER.

would you take advise from anyone – NO! And neither should you.

Goodreads Stats

Read in 2013 (49)

Currently Reading (2)

 

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discussion

I want you to take a moment.

Take a moment and think of On a Book Bender–whatever it means to you.

It will mean different things to different people. You can think nice thoughts or you can think mean ones. You don’t have to share them with me, so you’re good either way.

Now I want you to put On a Book Bender into a blog category: small, medium, or big.

I’ll wait while you do this.

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*surfs Ellora’s cave for Top Off Tuesday covers*

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*sips wine*

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(Just kidding. Not drinking any. Wish I was, though.)

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Okay. Finished?

GOOD.

Now I want to talk numbers. We put so much stock into numbers–they’re easy to quantify and they’re what the publishers look at–but at the end of the day, what do they really tell us about our blog? And I want to tackle this issue of numbers by sharing MY numbers and pitting them against what YOU think On a Book Bender is. There’s no real accurate way to capture numbers, but I will list the various platforms I’m on and what those numbers are as of 6/11/2013.

Feedburner Email: 36 subscriptions (But really 35, because I’m one of the 36.)
Bloglovin’: 123 followers (122, because I’m one.)
Twitter: 1,367 followers
Facebook: 183 likes (I also liked my own page.)
Goodreads: 274 friends
Google+: 13 followers, 17 +1s
Weekly digest: 4 subscribers

Since being on a self-hosted WP site (Jan. 2012), JetPack says that I have received 58,637 views.

Since the beginning of 2013, Google Analytics tells me that On a Book Bender has received 20,560 pageviews, 11,373 visits, and 5,790 unique visitors.

Last month, I had 3,403 pageviews, 2,065 visits, and 1,303 unique visitors.

Last week, I had 437 pageviews, 288 visits, and 203 unique visitors.

I have 12,625 comments on 663 posts, or approximately 19 comments per post (keep in mind that half of those are mine).

How do those stats stack up against what YOU thought?

Here’s what I think:

  • Numbers are NOT readers or followers.
  • No one platform gives me an accurate count of my true reader base.
  • The success (or failure) of On a Book Bender cannot be measured in numbers.
  • Numbers cannot–and never will–measure influence.
  • Increasing your numbers for the sake of increasing your numbers only gets you numbers–not followers or readers or friends.

Our number obsession as bloggers is part of a larger fascination with categorizing ourselves and finding our place in the hierarchy because someone will always be on top.

Numbers are hard to escape. It may even be impossible. But do you know what’s even more important? Choosing which numbers matter to YOU. Here are the ones that matter to me:

  • The number of minutes/hours it takes me to respond to comments–the fewer, the better.
  • The number of people I tweet with on a daily basis–you’re all awesome.
  • The number of times people come BACK to my site after leaving a comment to continue the conversation.
  • The number of times people tell me how much they love my blog/me.
  • The number of emails I get from other bloggers who just want to chat: about books, life, or whatever.

Which numbers matter to you?

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Murder, mayhem, and money-saving tips!

Eternally 21 by Linda Joffe Hull

Genre: Mystery
Format: Paperback provided by publisher
Read: June 4-9, 2013
Linda Joffe Hull– Website | Facebook | Twitter
Eternally 21 on Goodreads

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Synopsis

Coupon-clipping Mrs. Frugalicious gets more than she bargained for . . .

After Mr. Frank “Finance” Michaels loses the family’s financial nest egg in a Ponzi scheme, his wife Maddie does whatever she can to help keep up the appearance that everything is financially fine. When she starts a bargain hunter’s blog under the alias Mrs. Frugalicious, her website becomes a viral hit with a growing “frugarmy” of budget advice seekers.

While Maddie is researching “frugasm”-worthy deals on holiday shopping for teens, Eternally 21 store manager Laila DeSimone mistakenly accuses her of shoplifting. Then her day goes from bad to worse when Laila expires on the floor. Since Laila was a universally disliked manager, the murder suspect list is longer than Maddie’s bargain spreadsheet. But when evidence points to Maddie as the prime suspect, she must track down the real culprit. Can she uncover the truth before police throw away her get-out-of-jail-free coupon for good?

Includes bargain shopping tips & techniques. Find more money-saving advice at MrsFrugalicious.tumblr.com!
–from Goodreads

My Thoughts

What a fun read! I’m relatively new to reading mysteries, but I’m fast becoming a big of a fan of mysteries as I am of young adult books. Already a fan of Extreme Couponing – I’m still trying to convince my family that allowing me to turn the office/spare bedroom into a stockpile room is an excellent idea – this book was right up my alley.

While the writing style wasn’t as polished as other authors that I have read, I thought the story (particularly the murder mystery) was rather engaging. I was flip-flopping on my top suspects just like Maddie was throughout the novel and the author kept me in the dark as to who the true culprit was up until the very end! There were even a few plot surprises that I didn’t see coming.

I had a great time reading this first book in what I hope is a series of Mrs. Frugalicious Shopping Mysteries. It was fun to have the footnote tips and tricks about shopping, couponing, and saving money mixed in with the story, as well. I need to check out that Tumblr page for more money-saving advice and keep working on converting that office into a stockpile room. *wink*

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